I need a woman's opinion?

I think education has little to do with it. You both have strong personalities and different views on what living arrangements should be. Depending on how much time left you have on your lease you could possibly get out of it. If not, wait till your lease is up. She asked you to leave and you can not ruin your name for her whims. Secondly. Dont just move right back in. Let her stand on her own a while and you do the same. If you do move to where she is, rent an apartment or house for a while. I am sure you can find one that does not require a long lease. If you can not talk on the phone with out arguing, how will you live together. You can make new friends and meet new people, you can not take back time wasted on something that is never going to work. Even if you care about her, which you do not say anything about, sometimes you just can not live with someone. Before you even consider it again you and her need to talk about what you want from the other, and what you expect. If you dont want to do favors for nothing, then say so. If someone asks you, tell them you will look at the home, or job and get them an estimate before you agree to it. If you and her can not agree on the most basic things, you will never have a healthy relationship, no matter if you live with her or separately.